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5 Things that May Surely Ruin Your Relationship

Date:19-12-2013 15:41:20 read:6
Category:Women-->Love

Relationships work out well if you really care for it, give enough time, efforts and put all your love into it. The relationship needs equal nurturing from both the partners. Relationships go through ups and downs, so you need to deal with them with patient and calm. But relationships get ruined because of wrong decisions, reactions and behavior. Here are 5 things that may surely ruin your relationship.

1. Unrealistic expectations

High levels of expectations that are unrealistic always end up destroying relationships. The lesser the expectations the happier and contented you will be. Never expect too much because when expectations don’t get fulfilled you get hurt. When you are not expecting and things happen, you will be happier.

2. Changing yourself

In a relationship, making adjustments is good but not changing what you are. You can’t change your nature completely to make the relationship work. You will keep doing it for sometime and after a point, you will not be able to take it anymore. The most important thing is to be yourself and accept each other.

3. Breaking trust

When you make promises in a relationship, try to live up to it. You can’t keep breaking promises and shatter the trust even if the issues are small. Developing trust is hard but breaking it is too easy. Also, restoring trust is even more difficult.

4. Maintaining distance

Closeness and connection is very important in a relationship but personal space and distance is equally important. Always maintain your space and also let the other person have his own. This keeps the relationship going smoothly. Getting into each other’s personal space and not maintaining certain distance ruins everything.

5. Holding on to your past

You need to stop holding on to all the problems, fights, arguments, differences and negative experiences that you’ve had in the past. Learn to let go of all the small things, solve the bigger issues and get over them. Don’t drag all bitter things along with you. It creates negativity and hatred which ruins the relationship.

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