5 Excuses Men Give After Cheating

Date:19-12-2013 15:41:27 read:6

While there can be no excuse for cheating in a relationship, some men are experts at convincing their partner that they aren’t the one to be blamed for the same. They come up with all different excuses and play as the victim and finally, the poor girl forgives her boyfriend/husband. The reason that girls fall for these excuses is because they don’t know that these are the same old bookish excuses that men have been using for ages now. So, it is better to make yourself aware of these common excuses and be prepared to face something similar.

1. “I was forced”

No, he wasn’t! Had he been forced or blackmailed somehow, he would have told you about the matter at the very beginning. No one is a child, and no one can be forced to cheat on their girlfriend or wife. Unless, he has been blackmailed, which would mean that he has done something even more terrible that he does not want you to know.

2. “It happened too fast”

This is another common excuse given by men. “It happened too fast. I never got the time to think.” Well, it could have happened too fast for your slow brains to cope up with the first time. But what about the second time… and the third… and every time hence onward? If you were molested, that is a different issue, but having a second relationship can never happen too fast.

3. “There was nothing from my side”

So your guy is trying to tell you that there was nothing from his side, but was entirely the other girl’s fault? This means that he knew that the other girl had some feelings for him. Then why didn’t he tell you about it since the very beginning? Moreover, why did he continue to go for dates with that girl?

4. “It just happened once”

This is probably the first thing that comes out of a guy’s mouth if you catch him red-handed sleeping with another girl. “I’m so sorry. It just happened once. I promise it won’t happen again.” If a guy has the audacity to sleep with another girl while being in a relationship with you, be sure that it is going to happen again, and it definitely isn’t his first time. Well, it could be his first time getting caught. Such men do not deserve a second chance, because then they will become more careful, and you may probably never get to know how many times they repeat the same thing.

5. “You did that too”

If you got drunk at some party with your friends and maybe kissed some guy, it does not give him the right to cheat on you. If you were single then, the topic is completely ruled out, but if you were in a relationship then, he had the chance to leave you or give you the chance to correct yourself. Either ways, one’s mistake does not give permission to the other to commit the same mistake. Hence, do not let yourself to be taken on a guilt trip and make your decision completely based on the current circumstance.

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