7 Super Ways to Refresh Your Relationship

Date:03-04-2014 14:40:14 read:0

The problem with relationships is that like everything, they become mundane over time. They begin to lose the initial charm and the magic of spontaneity, and slowly become something you just have to live with – nothing much exciting. But problems arise when the same dullness in relationships begin to take detours towards frustration, dishonesty and infidelity. You should take the initiative to ensure that your relationship should not fall prey to boredom and in turn make way for ugly things which spoil lives and families. Do things to rejuvenate and enliven the spark of your relationship with your partner from time to time to keep the fascination alive. Listed below are 7 super ways to refresh your relationship.

1. Talk to him

One thing we do when have been into a relationship for quite a long time is that, we stop talking. Sometimes we do not have anything left to talk about, or we just find it too mundane to talk to the same person about the same things over and over again. But studies have shown that couples who talk things over on a daily basis are the ones who have a stronger bond and are the happiest. So make conversation a habit and you will hardly get bored of the relationship.

2. Relive happy memories

As a couple, you are bound to have happy memories together. Over time, when these memories relate to something in the distant past, we do not cherish them and instead lament on all negative things in our lives. Relive those happy memories with your partner, recall funny incidents and laugh on old jokes. It will bring back the magic that was there when those happy memories were created, and will certainly refresh your relationship.

3. Do chores together

Boredom comes from following the same routine day after day. If you have nothing new to do for a long period of time and do the same things over and over again repeatedly, you are sure to get bored of it. So add some fun into your daily chores, get involved in household work together, try something new along with him and break your routine once in a while just to have fun. That will bring back the spark in your relationship by breaking the dullness of your everyday life.

4. Dress up

If you think that just because you are married or have been committed for quite a long time, you do not need to look good anymore, think again! No matter what, you must always feel good about yourself. So if you do not dress up, wear your favorite cosmetics and do everything you can to look your best, you are unintentionally making the relationship boring. Wear the dresses you have always wanted to wear, indulge in accessories that you love and look your best (also, get your partner to do the same). It will keep the charm intact and will undoubtedly refresh your relationship.

5. Leave love messages

Leaving love messages for your partner can do wonders in refreshing your relationship with him. Not only will it bring back old memories when you had just fallen in love, you will also feel the same excitement and anticipation as you had felt then. This will rejuvenate your relationship like nothing else.

6. Bring back the spark

In your most intimate moments, be energetic again. Get innovative and experimental with sex, and you will bring back the spark which may seem to be missing these days. You could also give him erotic massage and engage in other stimulating exercises just to enliven things up.

7. Spend some time alone

Finally, don’t forget to have some alone time for yourself. You may have committed to someone and are responsible for handling a household, but that does not take away your individuality. You still need time to engage in your hobbies and do things that make you happy. You should not always depend upon your partner to kill your boredom. You must get comfortable being alone first, because it is then you will truly enjoy his company and your relationship will remain invigorated with liveliness.

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