13 Ways to be Romantic Without Being Cheesy

Date:11-04-2013 21:15:01 read:15

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Love relationships are beautiful! Romance is something that keeps a relationship young. When a woman is in love, she sometimes finds cheesy things romantic. But this doesn’t continue for a long time. As the relationship grows, cheesy gestures and sentences seem awkward. In such a case, your partner can feel disinterested in what you are saying. He also might pull himself away from you in order to avoid cheesy things. If you feel that you are in a similar situation then check out the following ideas. These ideas will help you stay romantic without saying or doing anything cheesy.

1. Understand the essence of romance

It is important to understand the changed meaning of romance when the initial phase of your relationship has passed. Being romantic is always about expressing your love to your partner. So, let your partner know that you still love him but do this in a more decent way. Being romantic is all about creating memories.

2. Work on the details

Love is all about doing little things for your partner. So, be selfless if you want to be romantic or want to express love to your partner. Try and go out of the way for doing something special for your better half. Do little things that can bring a smile on his face. It is important to do unexpected things sometimes. For example, if your guy is getting late for work then you can iron his clothes and get them ready for him.

3. Pay attention to everything he says

Attention and time are two very important things. You must give these two things to your partner if you want to keep your relationship young. So, pay attention to him when you guys are out with a group of friends or whenever he is speaking something to you. Give him the first preference and hang up on your friend’s call when he gets back home. Your partner should be the center of the world for you.

4. Talk a lot about your feelings

Everyone says that it is important to talk to each other when you are in a relationship. We all hear this but seldom do it. How often do you come home on a working day, sit with your partner and talk to him about his day? The answer of most of you will surely be, “Not often.” So, spend a lazy Sunday with your loved one. Cuddle him and talk to him about some great memories you created together. Talk about each other’s dreams, likes and dislikes.

5. Compete with each other

Have friendly fights and don’t forget to respect each other while doing that. Play some nice games and indulge in pillow fights. Make sure you don’t act like a sore loser. There are no losers in love.

6. Take a break from each other

Staying with each other for several years altogether can make you feel bored. So, take a break from each other and add some spice to your relationship. If you and your partner work and have busy lives then go to your mother’s place for a few days. This will give you some time to miss each other even more.

7. Take a break from work and go away from all the stress

Once you are back from your mother’s place, pack your bags and go on a vacation with your partner. You guys have already missed each other during the break and that’s why you will have more fun on a trip. If you don’t have much time then go for a simple night out, that will do just fine. Isolate yourselves from the world and this will help you realize how much you both love each other.

8. Use your body language to express your feelings

It is ordinary to say “Thank You” when your loved one does something for you. So, try and use your body language to say thanks or to express your feelings for a change. For instance, when your guy helps you to cook on a weekend, just give him a hug and passionate kiss to thank him.

9. Use humor to spruce up your relationship

Tease each other, have a lot of fun and play little games. It can be fun to pull each other’s legs and to cuddle each other at the end of each day. Laugh a lot and have a great time with each other.

10. Use public displays of affection to keep romance alive

Some guys don’t like public displays of affection at all, but you can use some subtle ones to keep the romance alive. For instance, simple things like holding his hand in the public and ordering his favorite ice cream to surprise him are great ideas.

11. Make memories

Memories can really last for lifetime. So, make a lot of new memories, catch them in pictures and get them framed. This idea will help you to relive your memories. Click a picture of those stolen glances and some very special moments that were filled with love. Videotape your memories to keep them with you always. For instance, you can videotape your surprise anniversary party or a funny prank you played on your guy. All this is not cheesy at all. Instead, all this will give you happiness.

12. Give compliments to each other

Don’t forget to tell your guy how you feel in his strong arms. Always remember to tell him that you feel safe and protected around him. Cook his favorite foods when he is ill and don’t forget to wipe his mouth when he is done. Such gestures can show how much you care for your partner.

13. Be sincere and genuine

It is important to be sincere and genuine in a relationship. Don’t try too hard to please him. Think about what your guy would like and do the same. Avoid doing things that are inspired from the romantic Hollywood movies. Also, don’t make false promises and never give him empty praise because these mistakes can make him lose faith in you and not develop trust for anything you are doing to make things better.

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