8 Super Ways to Make a Long – Term Relationship Feel New Again

Date:25-02-2014 15:40:04 read:2

A relationship is meant to last for life, and as time goes, should only become stronger and stronger. But in some cases, it is found that with time, the spark fades away, especially in romantic relationships. In the beginning, everything is so full of magic and excitement and there is such anxiety to meet each other and spend time together, but as time passes, the same things tend to become monotonous and lackluster. The love is still there, only the spark is now missing. But what if you could bring back the spark? What if you could relive the initial days of excitement all over again? Listed below are 8 super ways to make a long term relationship feel new again.

1. Undergo a makeover

In order to feel new, you must look new! Go and have a makeover. Cut your hair into a fresh fashion and get a new hair style. Go to a salon and get yourself an entirely new look – something that not only makes you look good, but makes you feel confident about yourself all over again. With your new found confidence and appearance, you are sure to bring the spark back into the relationship which may have turned bland over time.

2. Go on dates again

You should consider going on dates again – like old times. Remember the days when you were so eager to hear from him and to decide upon a place and time to meet up and hang out together? Well, you could do it again! Decide on a fresh and flashy venue and meet up with him. Enjoy and relive those initial days again. The relationship will begin to feel as good as new.

3. Give each other space

Another way to bring back the spark is to give each other more space. You can live one or two days without interacting with him. You could go on an outing with your girlfriends and not be dependent upon him always to go out. Also, advise him to meet up with his old pals or have an all boys’ night out or something. This will make both of you feel energetic and youthful like the old days, and when you meet back again, it will feel like a new relationship.

4. Watch an old favorite movie together

Remember the movies both of you watched in the early days of your relationship. Remember the first movie both of you watched together? Revisit those days; catch those movies again together and it will bring back old memories and along with it the initial excitement and magic in the relationship.

5. Look at old photos/videos

Sit together and just browse through old photos you took together and it will bring back memories, you may not have pondered over for a very long time. Old photos and videos will not only make you remember the good old days but will also make you laugh when you recollect old anecdotes or funny incidents that happened during those days. It is sure to bring the spark back!

6. Go to places where you first met and dated

Go back and revisit those places where both of you roamed in the initial days of your relationship. Spend time at the place where he first proposed to you and where you spent wonderful times together. Those places will spark old memories and make the relationship feel new again.

7. Go on short vacations/weekend getaways

Short vacations and weekend getaways are the best ways to get rid of the monotony of everyday life and live life differently even for a couple of days. And when your loved one is with you, it will be all the more magical. Going on a short vacation will undoubtedly bring back the spark in your relationship and make it feel new again.

8. Say ‘I love you’ more often

Last but not the least, say ‘I love you’ more often and when you say it, do really mean it and then express it. Your partner is sure to reciprocate in the same manner and both of you will rediscover the magic and newness in your relationship all over again.

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