5 Signs He is Bored With You

Date:11-04-2014 14:40:04 read:3

There are some relationships where you get the vibe really early that it is meant to go for long. And then there are those relationships where even after spending the longest time together, you don’t feel the kind of kick and passion that most other people around you would be feeling in their relationships. Usually, when you are worried about the state and progress of your relationship, then it indicates that your partner is probably bored with you.

It’s not necessary that your partner is bored of you because of some changes in you, but it could also be because of some circumstances or situations. Here are some signs that indicate that he is probably not feeling the same way about you as he used to at the start of the relationship.

1. He doesn’t respond that quickly

At the start of the relationship, people are mushy and cheesy. They respond to messages and calls almost instantly, and make time to respond to each other even in the middle of a hectic day. If he has lost the need for that urgency to reply, or if you feel that he isn’t that excited about responding to you in time, then he’s probably bored with you.

2. He doesn’t plan anything new

He doesn’t suggest any new places to go to, and does not initiate conversations about going for a holiday or chilling during the weekend. He is okay with whatever you say, and spending time with each other seems really mundane. He may even not show the urgency or excitement to meet you in the evening after a long day of work, and before you know, it may be a week since you last met properly.

3. He doesn’t tell you much about his life

Earlier, he may be telling you everything about what’s happening at work, about his coworkers, his mood swings, his ambitions and plans. Now he doesn’t tell you anything, and you end up finding about things from mutual friends. In other words, he doesn’t look forward to talking about his day with you.

4. He doesn’t compliment you

There, probably, were times in your relationship earlier where he used to find you beautiful even without makeup and when you were in your ragged or shabby nightdress. Now he doesn’t compliment you even when you are dressed amazingly well, and doesn’t seem to notice your new shoes or dress. If you ask him how you look, he responds in a very disinterested fashion.

5. He doesn’t pay attention to your talks

His mind may be wandering to different things when you are talking to him. He may not respond properly, and you would have to repeat things twice or thrice to get his attention and make him hear what you have to say. It clearly shows that your talks have become boring background chatter for him.

Do not over read your partner’s behavior and unnecessarily point out his flaws. But yes, if you do see these signs surfacing, then it’s possible that he is getting bored with you. It may not necessarily indicate the end of the relationship though. It probably just means that you need to figure out ways of spicing things up in your relationship to make the bond stronger. Always remember that having your partner interested in you is the key to keep taking the relationship forward in a steady and stable manner.

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